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Quirky DIY must-have gifts for older women who have everything they want and need

By Roopa Ki Yatra

It’s a big hassle, right? Buying gifts for our mom, our mom-in-law, our grandma, our older sisters, our aunts – because just about everything you think they’d like (and yes, they would like them) but they already have them. In multiples.

Do you want a new dress? Nope. I have enough to fill three wardrobes.

A new pair of earrings? A cute necklace? Dinner for you and dad?

No. Have many pairs of earrings already and nowhere to put them. No. I don’t wear necklaces – cute or otherwise, anymore. And the perfect date night for dad and me is to snuggle in and order Pizza. Who wants to get dressed and go out when staying in so much nicer?

How about a bottle of expensive wine? Or Champagne?

Uhhh…well…uhhh…

So, yeah. That’s a no, then. A. Big. Fat. No.

NO.

So – what in AF do you want mom? Or other older women in your life?

So you scream inside your mind. And on the outside mull and ponder over what to get someone who seems to have – not everything – but everything that they could possibly need.

So, yes. It IS a big hassle. It’s not like teenage girls or young women in their 20s and 30s – phones, tablets, clothes, shoes, jackets – there’s such so much out there that you can get them. But women in their 50s, 60s and even older – they are sentimental enough that they expect something more than a practical gift card to Target but every thing you ask them if they’d like – they have three of everything.

So this list is a crisp and cute list for those picky older women in your life who expect something thoughtful but also seem to have everything. This list is full of gift ideas that will make them think. It will make them interested. Because these gifts are not just something you picked off of a shelf (well, you did do that but that’s not quite what I mean here!) but these are gifts that will get the women in your life interested and intrigued. For these are DIY gifts that the women in your life will enjoy making something with instead of just getting something.

1. Planter’s Choice Bonsai Tool Kit

Calling all garden lovers!

Premium Bonsai Tool Kit + Bonsai 101 Book – Set Includes: Wooden Rake, Long & Wide Spades, Scissors, Tweezers, Bamboo Brush, & Pruning Shears (Trimmer/Clipper) in Fabric Storage Holder – Bonsai Tools

Bonsai Starter Kit – The Complete Growing Kit to Easily Grow 4 Bonsai Trees from Seed + Comprehensive Guide & Bamboo Plant Markers – Unusual Gardening Gifts Ideas for Women – Indoor Bonzai Tree Seeds

2. Mindful Design Stackable LED Indoor Garden Kit

Mindful Design LED Indoor Herb Garden – at Home Mini Window Planter Kit for Herbs, Succulents, and Vegetables (White)

3. Victrola Nostalgic Wood Countertop Jukebox with Built-in Bluetooth

Calling all music lovers! She would probably love to fool around with a portable jukebox – trendy enough that her kids and grandkids think she is cool. Conventional enough that it brings memories of her past with grandpa when they first started dating!

Victrola Nostalgic Wood Countertop Jukebox with Built-in Bluetooth

4 – Brewer’s Best Brut IPA Limited Five Gallon Beer Making Ingredient Kit

She loves beer? Well, maybe she’d like to make her own beer?

Brewer’s Best Brut IPA Limited Five Gallon Beer Making Ingredient Kit

5 – Craft a Brew Home Pinot Grigio Making Kit – Easy Beginners with Ingredients and Supplies – Ultimate Wine Brewing

Or she’d like to make wine?

DIY My Wine Co, Premium All-In-One Wine Making Kit, Makes Up to 5 Bottles/4 Litres of Wine, Pinot Grigio, 1.74L

Craft a Brew Home Pinot Grigio Making Kit – Easy Beginners with Ingredients and Supplies – Ultimate Wine Brewing

6 – Home Complete Portable Greenhouse HC

Maybe she’d like her own greenhouse – even if she lives in a frozen tundra!

Home-Complete Mini Greenhouse-4-Tier Indoor Outdoor Sturdy Portable Shelves-Grow Plants, Seedlings, Herbs, or Flowers In Any Season-Gardening Rack

Mini Walk-in Greenhouse 3 Tier 6 Shelves with PE Cover and Roll-Up Zipper Door, Waterproof Cloche Portable Greenhouse Tent-55.9L x 28.3W x 75.59H Inches, Grow Seeds & Seedlings, Tend Potted Plants

7 – Luxury Candle Making Kit

Or she’s the candle-lover in the family and would like to get her hands on making her own? One candle for each of you?

Luxury Candle Making Kit – Complete Supplies to Create 6 Premium Scented Soy Candles

8 – STMT DIY Lip Balm Kit

Or she can make her own lip balm and distribute it to her family members?

STMT DIY Tinted Lip Kit by Horizon Group USA, Mix & Create 5 Matte Vanilla Flavored Lip Tints using Jojoba Oil & Shea Butter For Moisture & Care. Includes Wax Chips, Lip Tint Colors & More, Multicolor

9 – The Ultimate Cheese-Making Kit

Or she’s just a cheesehead like the rest of you?

The Ultimate Cheese Making Kit – Make 10 Different Cheeses Across 40 batches. It’s The Perfect Foodie Gift.

Standing Stone Farms Ultimate Cheese Making Kit – Mozzarella, Feta, Halloumi, Cheddar Cheese Curds, Pepper Jack, Cream Cheese, Marscapone, Chèvre, Burrata and more.

10 – Craft Crush Bracelet Box Kit

Nope. She has 6 grandkids and she’d much rather make bracelets for them than buy them from Claire?

Craft-tastic – Bracelet Box – Jewelry Making Craft Kit Includes 9 DIY Bracelets – Jewel Tones Edition

Craft Crush Bracelet Box – Neutrals

11. Hot Sauce Making Kit

Ooooh! Y’all like spicy food? Well, she’s going to make her own hot sauce for everyone. Hot Sauce, y’all!

Thoughtfully Gifts, The Original DIY Hot Sauce Kit, Gift Set Includes 4 Skull Glass Jars, 2 Funnels, Seasonings, Gloves and Recipe Book

Hot Sauce Kit (Makes 7 Lip Smacking Gourmet Bottles) Featuring Heirloom Peppers From 5th Generation Farmers, A Full Set Of Recipes, Storing Bottles & More!

12. Stylish Wooden Back Scratchers

OK. She’s done DIYing. She just needs to chill and rest her back. but before scratching it with the new wooden back-scratcher you got her. And when she doesn’t use it to scratch her back – she mounts it as wall art!

Yamako Wooden Back Scratcher (12 inch) 89148

Hope these DIY gifts make the women in your life happy!

ENJOY!

Drop us a line below if you think we should add more to this list.

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Hi! I’m Roopa. I handle life’s messiness with a smile on my face. I’m also a solo woman travel writer. A lifestyle blogger. I curate budget-friendly gift guides and printables. I’m a funny person who is also a storyteller and entertainer. Finally, I’m a vegetarian foodaholic (and no…that’s NOT an oxymoron)! Welcome to The Messy Optimist. Learn more about me here…

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